Young children find a parent's hug more calming than a stranger's

"Like most parents, we love to hug our children," says first author Sachine Yoshida of Toho University in Tokyo, Japan. "We also know that children love to be hugged by their parents. But what surprised us as scientists is how little we know about hugging."

One question was whether a hug was really calming or whether any increase in pressure -- for instance, from being held -- could be soothing. To begin to explore this in the new study, Yoshida along with Hiromasa Funato and their colleagues examined heart rate responses in infants less than one year during a hold, a hug, and a tight hug. They also looked at what happens when a female stranger did the hugging instead.

"The infants older than four months old showed a high increase ratio of heartbeat intervals during hugging by their parents than by female strangers," Yoshida said. "Parents also showed a high increase ratio of heartbeats intervals by hugging their infants. We found that both infants and parents come to relax by hugging."

The researchers report that parents and infants both showed an increase during a hug in what's known as the R-R interval (RRI) on an electrocardiogram. The R-R interval is the time between a particular waveform that measures electrical activity of the heart. The increased time indicates a slowed heart rate.

Infants younger than four months didn't show the same RRI increase during a hug, the researchers reported. But those young infants did show a slowed heart rate when a parent's hand put pressure on his or her back while being held, suggesting that they didn't make the same distinction as older infants between being held and being hugged

The researchers say that they had expected a hug would lead to obvious changes in an infant's behavior, turning a fussy mood into a good one, perhaps. But what surprised them was that the calming effects of a hug that they observed only could be detected on infants who were neither crying nor fussy. "Due to this inconspicuous feature, we think that the experimental data indicating the relaxing effect of a parent-infant hug had been a missing piece for a while, even though there was much situational evidence," Funato says.

"Your baby loves to be hugged and loves how you hug your baby," Yoshida adds. "Even though infants cannot speak, they recognize their parents through various parenting methods, including hugging, after four months old at latest. We hope that knowing how your baby feels while being hugged help ease the physical and psychological workload of taking care of infants too young to speak."